Be your child’s favorite toy.
The best toy a child can have is a parent who gets down on the floor and plays with them.
Parent like crazy.
Parenting is hard and a lot of times you just have to laugh about it and keep doing your best.
The best toy a child can have is a parent who gets down on the floor and plays with them.
Parent like crazy.
Parenting is hard and a lot of times you just have to laugh about it and keep doing your best.
Teaching your child to ride a bike can be stressful. Parents hate to see their children get hurt, and learning how to ride a bike can involve a fair share of scrapes, bumps and bruises. Some parents put off teaching their child to ride a bike because they want to avoid this angst and pain.
Instead it is better to teach your child to ride a bike when they are younger.
At a young age your child travels slower on a bike and subsequently has less violent crashes and collisions. Falling is a part of learning how to ride a bike and bigger older kids take bigger falls when trying to learn.
Young kids travel a lot slower on a bike and that makes it much easier to teach them how to ride. Parents of young children can easily walk or jog alongside them or behind them while helping them learn. Being able to jog with your child allows you to hold the backseat or handlebars to help them navigate around. Older kids move so fast on a bike that parents have to basically run with them, which makes it unlikely you could intervene in an accident and pull the kid to safety.
Walking or jogging alongside your youngster as they learn to ride gives them incredible peace of mind. Children that are apprehensive to ride on their own or are intimidated by the prospects of crashing feel much more comfortable when their parent is by their side. Parents can start with a heavy hand on the bicycle and then over time can slowly loosen their grip and influence on the bike, leaving just the child pedaling along on their own.
My five year old daughter recently mastered bike riding, and unlike my other kids she was a bit timid to ride out on her own. We started the process on a bike with 16 inch wheels, which was the best bike for a five year old and gave her the ability to put her feet solidly on the ground whenever coming to a stop. At the start, we rode around with her on the bike and my left hand on the handlebar and right hand on the back of the seat or on her left shoulder.
My daughter weighs about 45 pounds, so by holding the handlebar and her left shoulder I can pretty easily control her path and progress. Kids should ideally dress in pants and a long sleeve shirt when learning to ride a bike to help avoid scrapes on knees and elbows. My daughter had enough slack in her shirt that I could grab that up at the shoulder and hold the fabric there without bothering her.
As my daughter pedals my job is mostly to just keep her going straight and to encourage her to pedal hard. I like to help her try and understand that the bike will go straight if she pedals hard but otherwise it will fall off to the left or the right. Early on, parents will have to put in a lot of work keeping the handlebar straight for their child but they should work to loosen that grip and instead just hold the child a bit by the shoulder to guide them.
Parents should relax and look forward to teaching their child how to ride a bike. It is a fun, memorable experience and an early ‘big’ accomplishment for your little one. Put a helmet on your child and remember proper bike safety. Here are the key steps to teaching them how to ride.
Stopping and starting are crucial bike skills that often give little children problems. Help them work on starting by getting their pedals in a proper position and then boosting them with a push. For stopping drills encourage them to work on braking with the goal of being stopped by a certain point.
Oftentimes parents and children fail in this process because they have unmatched expectations. Some kids might expect to just hop on the bike and be ready to ride off without practice. Similarly some parents might unrealistically expect their children to master bike riding immediately. Neither of those things will happen. Learning how to ride a bike takes some time. It is an unfamiliar process for kids. They are a little more acclimated to instant gratification. It is important for parents to start the bike riding process by leveling expectations and helping them understand that they will have to work hard for their goal and that before they succeed there will be some failure. Perseverance is a crucial life skill and parents can start teaching it to children with bike riding lessons.
Some parents swear by the ability of a scoot bike to aid the learning process. It is true that scoot bikes are awesome at teaching balance and for a lot of kids it makes learning how to ride a bike easy. The scoot bike or balance bike is best imagined as a bicycle that is missing pedals and cranks. This gives riders the ability to work on the core mechanics of steering and staying upright without complicating the process by pedaling. Scoot bikes are positioned low enough to the ground that children can use their own feet to steady themselves.
Scoot bikes are not a necessary step in the learning process but a lot of parents find that it makes it easier for their child to learn how to ride a bike.
While a scoot bike works on teaching balance the training wheels permit a child to safely learn the pedaling motion. Training wheels attach to the rear wheel of your child’s bike and give it a wide stance to keep it from falling over. Ultimately the value of training wheels is disputable and probably parents are better off not using them. While they can make the bike fun for kids, it is likely that a child able to ride around on training wheels is ready to learn how to ride without them. Training wheels are a crutch and parents should be careful about when to rely on them.
Parents put off teaching their children how to ride a bike because they are scared about the risks and responsibilities. Instead it is better to teach children how to ride as young as possible. The smaller kids travel slower (making it easier for you to run alongside teaching them) and they weigh less (making it easier for you to catch them as they fall). It is important for parents and children to go into the process with a good attitude and proper expectations. Ultimately, by working together at it and by spending time together to get it done your child will learn how to ride a bike. As a parent be sure to enjoy the process and do whatever you can to support them through it.
A lot of parents wonder (and worry) about how tall their child will be. It is natural to consider what the future may hold for your child. You don’t have to be a father that dreams about his son playing professional sports or a mother raising a broadway dancer to be curious about what height your child will stop growing.
There are plenty of advantages to being both tall or short. Parent’s obsession with the height of their children is often more about looking at ourselves and considering what we have contributed to our child. What genes have we passed on? Will he grow up to be tall like his dad one day? Will she be sharing clothes with her mom one day soon? This makes sense as genetics play the largest role in the child’s final adult height.
Science actually does a decent job at helping us predict where children will fall on the growth chart, and so do some of the old wives tales. However, parents have to wait a few years before they can start to calculate how tall their kid will grow. Both the scientists and the old wives tales acknowledge that birth height is not a terribly accurate predictor of adult height. Still, parents are apt to believe that a baby born long will grow tall one day. The range for most newborns is between 18 and 22 inches.
If you ask your grandmother to predict your child’s height she might tell you the 2 x 2 method, height at 2 multiplied by 2, will estimate how tall any kid will be as an adult. In that world, if you want your child to grow up to be six feet tall the first big hurdle is to be 3 feet tall by age two. Consider that the average height of a two year old is about 34 inches and a typical two year old is expected to grow about 2 inches per year until they reach puberty (and its accompanying growth spurt).
Another popular method used to estimate height is based on how tall the parents are. The mid-parental height method helps you estimate your child’s height before they are even born. All it requires is for parents to add together their respective heights and then divide by two to get the average and then add 5 inches for a boy or subtract 2 inches for a girl. Genetics continues to be the dominant determinant in how tall someone will be.
Growth in children can be negatively impacted by several factors. The most meaningful one is often nutrition as eating disorders or malnutrition can stunt growth spurts. Similarly childhood illnesses, obesity, and some medications can slow down the growth of a child and impact how tall they end up. This could add up as every extra inch in height is worth almost $1,000 in increased annual earnings according to some sociologists.
Scientists have found that the best time to predict a child’s height is actually 4 years of age. A age 4 the prediction is fairly accurate as the standard error is only 4-5 cm in both sexes. Boys are fairly more predictive at that age as about 80% of a boys final adult height can be explained by the height at age 4. For girls it is a bit lower with about 2/3 of a woman’s height being explained by her height at age 4.
Predicting a child’s height accurately can be helpful to parents along with doctors and other professionals. To make the prediction a parent or doctor can compare the child’s height at age 4 to the growth chart. If the child is in the 90% of height at age 4, he has about an 8 in 10 chance of being in the 90% of height when he reaches adulthood.
After age 4 and into adolescence the predictive power of the child’s height actually starts to diminish. This is due to the variability of kids entering and exiting puberty at different times. At age 14 the height of a boy is predicting only 66% of his final adult height. As boys start to shave they are usually about done growing. Girls usually grow about another 2 inches after they have their first menstrual period.
Parents trying to predict the adult height of their son or daughter should remember these three simple methods for making an estimate:
Parents interested in predicting the adult height of their children should first look at themselves. The genetic they contributed are the strongest determinant in a child’s final height. For those looking at their child lagging behind their classmates in height, or maybe those with a tall child, consider what age they are and if the height is a reflection of puberty or a good estimate of what lies ahead.
It is surprisingly easy to be THAT house this Halloween night! It only takes four simple steps:
You deserve it. Your neighborhood deserves it. Here are four simple steps to make sure that this Halloween you add to the fun and help your neighborhood enjoy the fright night.
The bigger the better when it comes to candy. Sadly these days every house has the same candy to offer. It used to be that kids got a lot of variety when they went trick or treating. Everyone would come home, dump out what they got, savor over the best treats, and excitedly trade with each other for their favorite sweets.
Unfortunately, the current state of halloween candy is that every house on the block has one of the three different fun-size ‘variety’ bags to offer trick or treaters. In this age of corporate conglomerates we have seen most of the smaller, independent candies gobbled up by the big guys. The result is that every house, door after door, has the exact same candy to offer trick or treaters.
This year you can change things. Your house can be different. It can be a shining beacon of excitement and hope to trick or treaters on the dark Halloween night. You can be the guy who finds a different candy and upgrades the fun size. Your house can be the one that hands out the big, full size candy bars and be written into neighborhood legend. Kids will revere your house as they walk by and whisper to their friends the immortal line, “That place on Halloween gives out full size candy.”
If you do the math, then a full size candy bar bought in bulk costs you between 50 cents and a dollar per bar. That is about ten times the variety pack cost of the smaller ‘fun size’ candy bars. If you have fifty trick or treaters it is not a crazy investment. If you have five hundred then it adds up fast.
The opportunities are endless and every year more fun ways to decorate emerge. Lights, cameras, action you name it and it is yours. Want to set it up the front yard with a graveyard theme then add some tombstones and skeletons. Trying to make it fun instead then put up any of these goofy Halloween inflatables that inflate in a second and include spooky lights or inflatable archways that kids walk through to get their candy.
Another easy way to decorate is the amazing lighting options available from spotlights and haunted house displays to easy changes like orange LED lights on your porch. The new lighting options are weatherproof and waterproof. They also do not cost a lot of money to operate.
If you do not want to spend a lot of money just get out the sidewalk chalk. Have your kids lay down on the sidewalk and outline them for easy chalk outlines. Make a scary police scene spooky by adding lots of outlines then placing construction paper silhouette cutouts of monsters on your windows. Just like that you have easy Halloween decorations.
Nobody wants to hear you tell them that you are going as a ‘middle-age dad’ or a ‘suburban husband.’ Go get off the couch and go into the costume shop and find something fun and frightening. Costumes have gotten cheap and there are tons of awesome options. Everyone can find something they love.
At least find a mask or a pair of glasses or something fun that adds to the Halloween spirit. At best, think of a costume that compliments something your kids are doing. Is your son Spiderman this year? How about you go as Venom. Is your little girl Red Riding Hood? You should be dressing up as the Big Bad Wolf. There are lots of fine ways to play it and to give your kids a fun Halloween surprise to start off the night.
Everyone wants a fright on Halloween and the best houses offer them something special that catches them off guard. Maybe you have a second floor window that overlooks your porch and you can put a spider on a string or a ghost to swoop down. Inside your house there might be an opportunity for something to jump out or for something to swing down when you open the door. Hang a rope that connects from your porch to a tree outside and run a ghost along it. Anything out of the ordinary helps break the monotony of modern trick or treating.
Do you have some other great tips on how to be a dynamic dad this Halloween? Please add them to the comments below.